FRIENDSHIP
I think that is very difficult to find good friend they could
appear in any stage of our book life....
Our life is changeable this make us lost or find people, and
when we start sharing different kinds of experiences, start having time,
commitment, tolerance, without any returns something new start!.
Some ideas are often similar. They are always present in our best or worst
moments, never leave us, several times hurt us just because she/ he is telling
us the truth instead of create us a false
idea of what we are.
Being a friend is not easy; you need to know the past story
and accepted as it is. The self is the first enemy. Pride and selfishness don’t
fit in the relation. Isn't hard making new friends, but is much more difficult
to keep them, if you have one take care of him/her and accept it as it is, because one day could leave and don't come back any more...
"It is prosperity that gives us friends, adversity that proves them." (proverb)
You're absolutely right my friend the truth is that it is possible to be around a lot of people and still feeling very alone, it is very difficult to met a person for a while and in the way give to him/her your secrets, your trust, and your respect. When you are meeting someone that is making you happy all the time you wonder if he or she is going to be the right person to live those important moments that makes you so happy, if they are going to support you when you have difficult moments, if they are going to give you the security to be yourself all the time.
ReplyDeleteIt is very difficult to have a real friend because in your life you will find some people that are not going to appreciate your friendship or disappoint you in some stage of the friendship however you must not close yourself to the rest of the world, you must give to other people the opportunity to enjoy your company and trust that is going to bring you these amazing thing (friendship).
We all need to have these special friends, sometimes when I’m with my friends and we all are laughing I use to think that I’m very lucky to have them, because I don’t know what I would do without them in these huge city and mu whole new life here in Hermosillo. I just want to thank all of them and invite you to experiment these beautiful sensation, the best thing of the friendship is that you will never feel alone again. :D
Security in all aspects is Very important! its like the base for a good relationship,and i agree with you, we may not be closed to new relations...:)
Deleteand i really happy having you as my Friend:)
beatiful publication, almost make me cry. But i want to add something. I dont know if it is because my experiences of the past but, i think that you cant consider a friend in a month, or 6 months. friendship builds every day for a long time and a lot of experiences. Friends are always there, in the good ones and in the bad ones, and you cant know if this people will be whit you there in those moments.
ReplyDeletei had a realy sad experience, i thought that i had many friends. and not just simple friends, i thougt that i had a good friends. But when i need them, i dont even knew to which friend go. and my friends that had knowledge about my situation, were acting like if they hadn't.
it was realy sad for me, but, since im sure that friends count with one hand, and fingers may overrun.
You are right. Friendship is something very special that you can't easily find.
ReplyDeleteI am very special when I choose my friends, I am not so sociable, because I'm very shy. But when I open myself to someone, I can give everything to build a special friendship.
When I entered to UDS, I was very sad because in the first 2 weeks, I didn't talk to anyone in my classroom, I was like a ghost lol. But then some of my actual friends started to talk with me and then they became my best friends :) they are so special to me I don't know what I would do if I lose them. I feel very lucky for having them they're the best :)
And personally I think that you know who are your true friends when you are in the worst moments, because there is when they come closer to you and help you in everything they can.
And obviously in the best moments, they are in there and you have a really great time. All the laughs, the jokes, the adventures :P everything is special when you are with your best friends :)
Can you please add my number to your labels? 10047019. Thanks :)
And thanks for this post too. It made my day :)
I think we are in similar situations I also struggled long to find new friends, my character is very difficult,and as you i'm shy, but then i start thinking that i could't be alone any more, and i found what I consider MY FRIENDS:), We have been through a lot of things, thanks to them I open more to the world and that helps me so much..
DeleteI feel exactly the same as you do!! When I met these people I knew that they would change my life for good. And they did it. I feel changed now, in a good way of course, and I thank them because they helped me to view everything in a very different way, without leaving behind my beliefs.
Deletei think that is true, but yo sould know this: exist friends that just will accompany in some stage in your life...these friends can teach you many things and make change and be better person, it's really unique and your life without them would be the same, but sometimes, for some reason do not stay, come and go but they leave an important mark in your way and in your heart ...
ReplyDeleteenjoy your friend and be the best friend with them (:
Thnks!!,I know these friends that are only for a moment, they don't leave anything bad, the leave us just a good learning..and when you Learn now you are in charge not commit them and try to do your best!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is the longest thread I've read so far! Friendship is a topic that touches us all - keep talking about this, and let's explore the topic further!
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